You’ve never wanted to fuck so badly
Until she did something great and has earned the heavy fucking she wants and you need to give.
No, I’m not talking about - she sucked dick well or sent the nudes you ordered. I mean she got an A on her test she worked hard to study for, or she dug herself out of an emotional pit before slipping into a depressive/anxious state all on her own accord, or she went to the gym for a solid week when her schedule was insanely busy, or she corrected a bad habit, or she started a new hobby for self care… etc etc etc
These are the moments when, if you truly care for her, you will find yourself overcome with happiness and sexual desire soon after. The deep desire to fuck her completely out of pride in her and show her how happy her own actions make you feel. Nothing is better than rewarding her for becoming a stronger version of herself.
This, dear friends, is the ultimate sense of combining love and lust in the most positive, endearing, and meaningful way.
Encourage her to be brave, take no shit, work hard, and strive for her goals. If she’s the type to enjoy such things, reward her for these acts. Only when she deserves it, but reward her and connect on a deeper, more meaningful level.